香港之旅

过了好多个月，我都忘了写下香港游的感想。。趁这机会，补上香港家庭旅行的历程。。

今年的第一个出国游， 也是第一次和妈妈，哥哥一起去游玩。正好今年3月有旅游展(MATTA FAIR)，我和我哥就去看看有那个适合，划算的旅团可参与。问了好多间的旅游公司，最后，我们决定签了AIRLINK TRAVEL COMPANY 的配套 - 梦幻迪士尼之旅。整个配套价值RM 1600左右,  5天4夜，是个不错的配套，包括了

1. 飞机票(CATHAY AIRWAY)，
2. 2天1夜迪士尼乐园住宿 -  HOLLYWOOD HOTEL
3. 2天迪士尼乐园门票
4. 3夜在香港 PANDA HOTEL的住宿
5. 1 x 半天香港游
6. 其余的时间-FREE and EASY

签了配套，很多事我们都不用烦了，就等待起飞那天的来临。

17 May - 早上 10.30，我们坐着CATHAY AIRWAY起飞。CATHAY AIRWAY蛮舒服的，空姐们也很和善，有的听音乐，看电视，电影，玩游戏，样样有，4个小时后，我们到达香港国际飞机场。由于飞机起飞迟了，所以我们也迟了到达。导游尽快载我们去CHECK-IN 迪士尼乐园的酒店，把东西搬到房间去，都已是下午4.30了。我们赶紧准备，乘坐SHUTTLE BAS去到迪士尼主题乐园。好多人都纷纷走出迪士尼主题乐园，而我们就反方向，走了进去，哈哈！不过，确实，那时已是黄昏，我们只可以走走，逛逛店，吃个晚餐，等待烟花表演，也不能去玩。在8点准时，烟花表演就开始了，真的好美，配上故事，10多分钟的表扬真的很精彩。看完后，我们只可以回去酒店。幸好，酒店有迪士尼专卖店，好让我们在回房间前消消遣，买买东西。就在哪，我就用了RM150++ 买了衣服和手信。是时候讲讲，迪士尼乐园里头的酒店了。在迪士尼乐园范围，有2间酒店 - DISNEYLAND HOTEL ,  HOLLYWOOD HOTEL。我们住的HOLLYWOOD HOTEL，房间是4人共住的，房间里都是迪士尼主题，床单，椅子，杯，浴室都有迪士尼人物画像。很干净，舒服，也很适合小孩子，或家庭。令我惊讶的是，电视机尽然准备了一波道 -  “睡前讲故事”。

18 May - 第2天，我们准备早起身，迟早餐后就前往迪士尼主题乐园玩。不过，天不作美，一早就下起雨了，电台还声称是黄色标志 （多雨量的一天）。我们唯有，慢慢享受我们的早餐，等待雨停。过了2小时，与还是没停，我们决定不等了，还是去了迪士尼主题乐园。虽然雨一直下，不过是毛毛雨，我们就拿着雨伞，穿雨衣。虽然下雨，迪士尼主题乐园还是有很多人，很多玩的机器也没关闭。妈妈不适合玩迪士尼主题乐园里的机器，我就陪她看了好几个shows,  坐火车，船，merry go round，拍照等等。到了下午5点左右，我们没走完，只走了3/4的迪士尼主题乐园，不过，已经很累了。6点，我们就等导游载我们出香港岛去，入住PANDA HOTEL。PANDA HOTEL在一间广场楼上，所以CHECK-IN 后，我们就到广场里的一间餐厅吃晚饭。终于我们开始吃一餐道地的香港菜。我们叫的套餐都很大份，真的有点不习惯。

19 May - 在香港的第3天，我们必须跟团绕着香港半天游。一早，导游先带我们到金紫荆广场，看看庄严的升旗仪式，然后让我们拍照留念。过后，才医我们的肚子。我们去到一间香港点心餐厅吃早餐。在哪，可看到很多香港老人家确实很早就坐在哪 - 谭茶，吃点心。吃饱后，就开始了我们的半天香港游。导游带我们去了

1. 浅水湾的海滩和庙
2. 香港仔避风塘参观珍宝海鲜舫（JUMBO SEAFOOD RESTAURANT） 和 海上人家
3. 参观中药制造场
4. 参观黄金珍珠制造场

参观完后，导游就在湾仔，放我们下车，走走湾仔。午餐时间，我们去到一间不错的云吞面店吃午餐。一间小间店，很多客人，我们就像戏里一样，需要和别人同坐一张桌子，店员也要我们快点order, 快点吃，快点走。我们感受到。过后，我们走走几条小街，去到一间香港很大间的Shopping Mall。忘了它叫什么名字，只记得它位于天星码头附近。到了下午4-5点，我们就打算上太平山顶参观杜丽莎蜡像馆。从尖东乘搭地铁去中环站，下车，走了15分钟左右，来到了Peak Tram车站。吓到的是，那时有好多人正在排队-“排长龙”等Peak Tram。既然来到，不可能放弃就回去，所以我们只好等了大约1小时，才搭上Tram上山去。最终，我和妈妈还是去到杜丽莎蜡像馆，参观，拍照，看日落，看夜景。看完，我们深怕排队等Tram, 所以乘坐巴士下上去，在乘搭地铁回酒店。这样，另一天又过去了。

20 May- 香港的游玩最后1天。这一天，我们计划去海洋公园，旺角，女人街，星光大道。早上，我们到附近的早晨茶餐室品尝香港道地的早餐。我超喜欢香港的“奶油猪”，“西多”，那些面包类。吃饱后，等巴士载我们去到海洋公园。在10.30am 左右到达海洋公园，我们就不浪费时间，进去走，玩。因为海洋公园分别在山上和山下，所以我们就先到山上去走。我 - 当然没有玩那些游戏，我陪我妈妈看了很多动物表演和参观不同的地方：

1. 出名的海豚表演
2. 小鸟表演
3. 水族馆
4. 水母万花筒
5. 熊猫 - 其中就有出名的安安，威威
6. 金鱼馆
7. 香港老街
8. 乘坐缆车

2点多左右，因下雨，我们就回去市区，吃午餐，准备走旺角，女人街。去到旺角，很多食物，衣服，糖水，电话，电器等不同种类的店。这一天的午餐，我们来到香港茶餐室，品尝香港其他的食物。觉得香港的cafe和餐厅都有一定不错的水准。3-5点之间，我们就逗留在旺角和女人街，看看，买买东西。也给我找到passport cover。高兴！Shopping完，都累了，我们决定回酒店冲凉休息，再去星光大道。过后因为误算乘搭地铁的时间，我们错过了星光大道每晚8点的灯光表演。可惜！！最后，我们只参观，走走星光大道，拍照留念。晚上，我们就收拾行李，准备回家。

21 May - 一早6.30am就坐车去到飞机场，就因我们乘坐超早的飞机 8.30am，飞回KL。。

终结：
香港是个不错的旅游胜地。喜欢shopping, 走走，热闹，不怕繁忙的旅游客，可以选择香港。自由行一点也不难，香港拥有超方便的公共交通工具，只要不怕行走，不怕累，就行了！

希望可以再有机会到香港去。。。

给喜欢旅游的你们

Today got to see a deal post in   Groupon.my hich is talking about travel package. The price and package 
are attracted me. It is a travel package to Krabi 
with accommodation arranged. 

Well, I like to go travel, and the place in the package is one of the places that I wish to go. Thus, I decided to visit 
the hotel website to take a look. The hotel named "Ananta Burin Resort". It is not located beach side, but it seems like
not that far away, just near to beach from the map. The rooms of the hotel are nice, some are come with unlimited
 wifi access. Here is the photo gallery.  In the website, I saw the hotel itself already prepared a lot of promotion
packages where all with reasonable prices. 

This is the one which they promote the most - Enjoy KRABI 3D/2N rate start from 2,990 THB per person. After convert
to MYR, it is about MYR 300 per person.

The package included Deluxe Pool View Room 3D2N (which normally charge 3,500 THB per room per night),
roundtrip transfer from airport to hotel and hotel to airport, one day island trip and tax & UAT. The round trip after
survey is about 1,000 THB per person. So, see, how cheap is it! Think the whole trip gonna be in RM1,000 for 3D2N. 
Sounds great!

If you are plan to go Krabi and surveying which hotel to stay, then you can take a look on it lar.. 

最近红爆全球的歌

最近红爆全球的歌和video，你知道是那首歌吗？Facebook一直有人post他这首歌的video, youtube点击率高达40Million，CNN都访问他，连Malaysia Hitz FM 也播放他这首歌。相信此刻应该有人猜到了。就是这首歌 - PSY - Gangnam Style 

有很多人在问，到底他为什么那么出名啊？我个人觉得，其实不是他出名，而是因为这首歌他才出名的。那这首歌有那么吸引人吗？这首歌音乐确实不错，加上他那独一无二的舞蹈，和他那搞笑的video，很难怪那么多人那么喜欢的。因为他这首歌真的让人看了开怀大笑。

老实说，我本人第一次听这首歌的时候，是没有看video的，觉得没有什么特别。再一次边看video边听这首歌，再看看唱歌的歌手，我第一个反应是，怎么这个人那么欠扁啊？！不过，在同事的影响下，我再看多几次，我接受了它。

在我公司gangnam style占了相当重要的位子，很多同事都一直听，甚至还有同事把这首歌当成他们的手机铃声。它甚至有时候可以帮助“提神”叻！

再分享他唱live的video 和这个video的制作过程。

PSY Gangnam Style live 20120819

The making film of Gangnam Style

热浪岛旅游记

刚过了一个不一样的旅程。8月12-14日，三天两夜的公司之旅，我们一班同事及老板们去到马来西亚数一数二的岛 - 热浪岛 (Pulau Redang)。这是我第二次到访热浪岛，同样的地点，不一样的朋友，不一样的酒店，当然感觉也不一样咯。

12/8 - 由于我们必须在早上9点左右到达登嘉奴码头，所以我们乘坐- 7.20am的班机。我们每个人都在没有足够的睡眠下，上飞机，去到登嘉奴码头， 乘坐ferry，到达热浪岛。我们租了Redang Beach Resort, 就在Laguna 的旁边。海滩虽美，但有很多珊瑚残渣。吃过准备的午餐后，休息一会儿，我们就自己在海滩游泳，浮潜。我们看到了很多鱼，还有baby shark。到了旁晚时分，我们一些人就打沙滩排球，一些就踢足球。

出奇的是，在热浪岛竟然有Ochado台湾奶茶分店。晚上，我们喝着Ochado饮料，听着Resortd的Live Band，感觉超棒！值得一提的是那Live Band，那位女主唱，声音很厚，但很好听，唱出Adele几首经典歌曲-Rolling in the deep, Set fire to the rain。

不一样的行程来咯！我们看到FB有人Post这几晚都会有流星雨出现，所以我们就在凌晨1点钟，开始躺在沙滩上，望着干净，很clear的天空，等着流星雨的来临。不负所望，我们在躺下不到半小时，就看到了几颗流星。我们一看到，就只会喊 ： 哦！， 啊！，哇！没有人记得要许愿。哈哈。。。我们就这样一两颗，一两颗地，看着看着，看到凌晨3点多。我们第一晚没有看到真正的流星雨，不过，我们看到了二，三十颗的流星。奇怪的是在热浪岛，只有我们这班人在观看流星。

13/8 - 就因为看流星，我们每个人都不够睡，第二天早上7.30am，就只有我和几个同事起身吃早餐，然后去了Marine Park浮潜。在沿途去Marine Park的时候，我们有幸看到海龟，好大的一只，再来就看到最怕的jelly fish。回到旅店，感到好累，好累。为了晚上的流星，我们放弃了下午的浮潜活动，回去房间睡觉去了。第二晚，12.30凌晨，我们在约定之下，拿着准备好的毛巾，零食，水，去到另一个海滩，躺下，继续我们第二晚的探星旅程。我们一到，就看到一颗超美的流星飞过，它正在燃烧着，它逗留在天空有数几秒，走后还流下深刻的“尾巴”。今晚，天不是很好，一直有黑云飘过，我们无法看到更多的流星。不知不觉，我们呆到早上4.30am，无法不能放弃了。我们还是看不到流星雨，不过，我们两晚看到了差不多50颗流星，也很满足了。

14/8 - 我们几个疯狂到不睡觉，继续走到比较干净的海滩，等待看日出。有点小可惜，在海与天空之间有一小段乌云，我们不能完全看到那颗”咸蛋黄“出来。不过，也拍到了一些满漂亮的照片。时间过得很快，三天的旅程就这样过去了。。。

后记：如果要看流星，可以选择去到海滩。一定要准备毛巾或草席，零食。有DSLR相机的朋友，可以尝试set timer，把相机摆在沙滩上，应该可以捕捉到几颗很大很亮的流星。

好棒的球赛

球下去的那一 刻 ，相信全国人民和他的心都碎了！可以感受得到他那一刻，他很伤心。不过，他今天确实打得非常好，没有令我们失望。他今天有一直进攻，反击，追击，虽然最后没能得到金牌，但我们都知道他已经尽全力了。

在facebook里，上百人，上万人，都写下一些安慰的话语，看得出我们全国都很团结，都很支持他。希望他不要太自责，太伤心了，快点收拾好心情回国吧！

他还是我们的英雄，还是我们心目中最棒的羽毛球选手 - 拿督李宗伟

七年之痒

何谓七年之痒？


其实，在爱情里面，那只是一个比喻，不是一定会经过的。只要你心里不要一直想着这四个字，那就不会发生在你身上。这往往是我们人心里的魔鬼在挑战我们而已。。。


所以说，不想就没事。Law Of Attraction - 只要你想好的，好的事就会跟着来，一旦你想不好的，它也就会被你吸引过来。。那，不如就一直想好的吧！


在爱情里，真正考验的，我相信是彼此爱对方的那种感觉吧！只要你们都一直保持那种爱的感觉，不管你拍拖多久，结了婚多久，你们的爱也会一直到永远。。。


体谅，相信，坦白，沟通＋开心的惊喜 == 开开心心的在一起，直到永远。。。


希望还没有找到另一半的朋友们，快点找到！有另一半的，永远恩爱！


加油中的～丽雯～

给3年后的自己

突然想起了一件事。。。不懂几时，什么戏，我看到了这一幕。。。在那部戏里的主角，他在十年前给十年后的自己写下了一封信，然后埋在一个地方，十年后的这天，他去挖出那封信，看自己写给自己的信。看到这，那时的我，觉得这还不错，想想我也应该写一些“东西”给以后的自己。。哈哈！


今天，我不懂我应该写什么叻。怎么办呢？想了想，我们一直都有为自己设下一些目标，或者是计划，理想，梦想？！那我不如就写下它们，让以后的我看看现在的我是有怎样的想法，也可以让我自己看看我都底有没有改变。。哈哈！不过，我不想写给十年后的自己，我觉得太久了。。好吧，就写给3年后的自己吧！

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给3年后的自己：


今天的3年后，也就是2014年，我会住在哪里？做着什么工作呢？3年了，我到底做了这些事情吗？
1. 每年带妈妈去一个地方旅行。如果坐飞机的话，一定要坐舒服的。
2. 开始每年新年给妈妈至少RM500-RM1000红包
3. 结婚了
4. 有自己的屋子，还要是设计，挑选家具，摆设。
5. 可以开始做我自己想做的事情 - 每天可以在家学煮饭，做饼干，做蛋糕。简单来说，不用做工了。哈哈！
6. 可以随时随地回家看爸爸妈妈。
7. 3年后的我所做的离我理想，梦想还远吗？


2011今天的我是：
1。打着一份已做了3年的工，Title: Software Developer。
2。还在住着租的单位。
3。没有车，没有任何property。


好了，希望一切美好！


2011年的自己 上
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算是给了自己一些承诺吧! 那我应该要好好努力的做，去实现我3年后的事。哈哈！


朋友们，不如你也想想，你会写些什么给3年后的自己吧！

～加油～ 丽雯

Enjoyable Bangkok Trip 23 - 26 Sep 2011

Always heard people said that must go Bangkok shopping, because you will love it. Finally, I went with my friends - Sim Ying, Wendy, Weng Wee and my dear. Some of us are first time been there. A 4 days 3 nights trip there, for me, I think it is not enough. Is better to go there 5 days 4 nights, so you have enough time to visit and shopping. 


Day 1 - We reached there at about 3pm (Bangkok local time) without any delay. The Bangkok international airport is grand and big. We walked very far to claim my luggage and get the taxi to hotel. All taxi here are come from Toyota family. We paid 700THB for the big taxi to go to our hotel. It takes around 30-45 mins to reach our hotel. Along the way to hotel, can see many huge advertisement boards, a lot of buildings and highways, really a big city. Our hotel - Baiyoke Suite Hotel (3 star), recommended by SimYing's friend and sister, is located at town, nearby few shopping mall. It is nice to stay here, as it is surrounded by morning, evening, night market and near to shopping malls. After check-in hotel, we went to walk around and visit The Platinum Fashion Mall, but unfortunately, the mall is closed at 8pm, so we went to MBK shopping mall. Supposed we plan to go watch "Ah Gua" show aka "Ladyboy show", but the price is very expensive, so we decided not to go. Actually "Ah Gua" show have no exact name, it having many name of it, depends on the organizers. Plan to go watch it in the next visit to Bangkok.

Day 2 - In planning, we wish to go visit Grand Palace, Emerald Buddha and Reclining Buddha, but end up we just visit 1 which is Grand Palace due to we kena tipu and timing. The story is like this - we reached Grand Palace very early at abt 10am, and met a local tour guide there. He told us that Grand Palace will only open at 12pm, asked us to go visit other places and recommend us having boat trip to visit those places. We really trusted him and "naik a thief boat" and paid RM75 (750) per person spending 1 hour in the boat rounding the place. The most sad part is when we entered the Grand Palace, there is a notice stated "Do not trust stranger who offering boat trip." We just knew we are being cheated. OMG!!! Just forget about it, let's talk about the Grand Palace. It is charged 400THB (RM40) for entrance fee. For those who want to visit it, please remember to wear shirt with sleeve, and long pants. If not, you are required to borrow the shirt or pant or sarung there. The Grand palace is very large, we totally used up 2 hours+ walking, seeing monuments, buildings, temples, museum inside. After visit under the hot sun, we wish to go back town shopping. Haha. We just shopping at the night market surrounded the hotel downstair for 2hours, and we bought few packs of clothes. Those clothes are cheap cheap cheap and nice, but gonna buy few pieces at a stall to get cheaper price (wholesales price). Night time, we went to visit China Town and having our dinner there. Nothing much to see there, but food. 


Day 3 - We went to Chatuchak market. It is a very busy market, open from morning till evening 5pm, if not mistaken. We having our breakfast and lunch there until 3pm. It is a place must go visit. There are many variety of stalls there - clothes, bags, souvenirs, food, drinks, decorations, and etc. Some are cheap, some are normal market price. We bought a lot a lot of things there. Sim Ying, Wendy and Weng Wee some more bought a back pack bag to keep those things they bought. Like us, we wish to shop for clothes which are cheaper at Platinum Fashion mall and evening markets compare to Chatuchak, thus, we went back to hotel and shopping around hotel. Four of us - Sim Ying, Wendy, Weng Wee and me used up few hundred in 3-4 hours shopping there. We bought a lot of t-shirts, formal clothes, short pants, shoes, bags, etc. 


Day 4 - Due to our flight time is 1205, we gonna check out early at about 9.30am. But, me and Sim Ying, we don't wish to regret, and run to have final short shopping at the morning market before check out. Finally, we really bought few packs before go back. Haha. 


We spent a lot in shopping in the trip. But, truly, the clothes there are really cheaper compare to Malaysia. No wonder, there are so many people go to Bangkok shopping every year. I can say it is worth, as estimate 1 shirt can save up to RM10-15. And the clothes here are fashion, and different, you can get what you want. This trip make me feel that I wish to go Bangkok shopping every year.. Haha.. 

Facial Treatment

Just finish 2 hours+ facial treatment. Last time, before I signed the package, I always think that going to do facial treatment every month is a very good relax moment for me myself. But after I signed, just realize that is not what I imagined. 

Today the beautician helped me to do a treatment called "Rolling facial treatment". A treatment that make me wanna cry. Why I say so?! After wash and clean my face, she put a mask which having anesthesia effect on my face before start the Rolling facial treatment. First time I heard this kind of facial treatment, sounds like so serious. And this made me felt worry just now. Why it called Rolling? I think is because the treatment need to use a material like roller. The beautician use the roller + the product "rolling" my face. The roller made me feel it is full of thorn like DURIAN. Lets imagine a DURIAN is rolling on your face. Think you will feel want to cry also. SOBSOB

The beautician said after this Rolling facial treatment, the big pores on my face will be "closed" or become small pores, and face will become nice nice. But, before the moment is reached, there will be red spots, and got some "fake scare" on my face, and my face will peeling these few days, may be 1 week. 

OMG. I think the facial treatment is not that good as what I imagine of. This makes me feel that I don't know to continue to be like that anymore..

Face is feeling pain now... 

Wish to have more POWER

I always worry or scare on something new to me. I always lack of brave to fight the things i need, fight to get the things i wish to have. I always do not have enough confident to do everything. These are my weak points. I really wish to overcome all these to make myself more powerful to handle my life.


Wish to ask HOW? Anyone can teach me how to gain more brave? how to gain more confident? How ? How?
These obstacles are blocked me many months already. I really wish to change, wish to jump over those obstacles to another step of life.. 


By Keep thinking HOW to become More CONFIDENT, BRAVE, POWER - Lawins

Emotional

Although it was over, but I wish to write out here to always remind myself - DO NOT SO EMOTIONAL anymore. 

I realized that my works make me be emotional in office and get too emotional on works recently just because the project. The project supposed gonna finish in 6 months, but finally, due to change request from end users, the project schedule is expanded to 1 year. Now, it is live. I thought it is time to leave the project and the project will be on going smoothly. BUT, we can't change the fade, the project returns with lots of change requests, issues, and bugs. 

Yesterday, again, I almost argued with my project team lead due to the change request. I really don't understand and don't agree that requests from end users. The changes are not to change slightly, to make the report/features better, but, the changes are totally change the features/reports to another new 1. These made me felt that what I had done previously are WASTED, RUBBISH. What for?! I really feel sad on it. BUT, no matter how, "users are always right". 

Thus, I need to change, don't let the works make me be emotional, don't get too emotional on works. I should familiar with this kind of situation. My life should fulfill with full of joy and happiness.

BY ready to go on 的 赖微思

人不应只看一面

我发现，其实，我们不应只看人的一面。。何谓一面呢？我说的一面是我们不应只听一个人的片面之词，应该听各有关人士的话语，才裁判到底是谁对谁错，不应太早下定论。。

我曾经因为只听甲的comment，然后就断定是乙的错，后来才发现原来不是这样的，也因此而误会了乙。我也曾经被人因此也误会了我。所以呢，有时候，不应只听一人的话，就做出决定，可想想，甲也未必知道整件事情的来龙去脉，他也有可能只是可旁听者。。。

我真不想自己被人这样误会，也不想自己因这样去误会别人。。

朋友，是应该多点信任，适当的关心，适当的关怀。如果他只是初犯，我们就不认他做朋友，未免太绝了！身边多个朋友，好过多个敌人。。

睡醒

今天，一睡醒，就告诉自己，开心点，今天将会是快乐的一天。。。

其实，睡醒的第一个感觉是很重要的！它会直接影响你整天的心情。。如果，你一睡醒，就告诉自己好累，不想上班，不想做任何事。哪，那一整天，你将慵懒地过。。。如果，你一醒来，就告诉自己，“喔，太好了，真是美好的一天，好期待今天的行程。。。” 哪，你呀，将会过着充实，又开心的一天。。你的感觉是会直接影响你的心情哦！

要开开心心地过每一天，不妨试试看！

Perfect Nightmare

Shontella - Perfect Nightmare
Sometimes we fight 
Sometimes I cry 
Why don't I 
Just tell him goodbye 
Sometimes I should 
But sometimes I don't 
Build up the strength to 
Say that it's wrong 
Sometimes I hate 
Sometimes I love 
Sometimes I hurt 
Sometimes I don't 
Sometimes I wait 
For him to change 
But it's okay 
I've disguised the pain 
And I don't ever wanna leave him alone 
They say i'm brainwashed but i'm in love 
With this man 
Yeah 

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it 
I already know I don't deserve it 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
So when will I wake up and scream 
No way (x7) 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
Perfect nightmare 

Sometimes I keep my cool 
Sometimes I let him know 
Sometimes I even pack my bags to walk out the door 
Sometimes I feel safe 
Sometimes I really don't 
Sometimes I promise that i'm ready to let him go 
But I don't ever wanna leave him alone 
They say i'm brainwashed but i'm in love 
With this man      Ohh ohhh 

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it 
I already know I don't deserve it 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
So when will I wake up and scream 
No way (x7) 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
Perfect nightmare 

Hoping he's changing 
But i'm scared he's not 
Can't see a way to leave 
Help me open my eyes 

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it 
I already know I don't deserve it 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
Perfect 

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it 
I already know I don't deserve it 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
So when will I wake up and scream 
No way (x7) 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
Perfect nightmare 
No way (x7) 
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting 
This is my perfect nightmare 
Perfect nightmare 
Perfect nightmare

缘份

到底怎样才叫 <缘份> 呢？

有很多人说：“ 一切随缘吧！” 或者 - “ 等缘份来咯！”  再或者 - “ 缘份未到吗？”

那你，又常说那一句《缘》呢？

我赞成缘份是存在的，缘份来是，你要挡也挡不了！但是，难道真的要在家坐着等你的缘份到吗？其实，我觉得人呀，是必须做些事，缘份才会来的。。。缘份，有时候是需要你去寻找的。。。难道你觉得你整天坐在家，那缘份会来到你家，来到你面前吗？

我还蛮喜欢 Law of Attraction 的道理，讲得还蛮对！有些事是需要你自己去吸引过来的。。。你的魅力，你的优点，是需要散发出来，别人才有机会看到，缘份自然会来。。。

所以呀，在这本书－The Secret; The Power 里，有个故事说到爱情的law of attraction. 那男生是做entertainment 工作，接触很多女生，但他都没有女朋友。有个心理学家看到他所画的图案都是女生回避的样子，就告诉他，为什么他会没有女生爱上他，是因为在他心里面，他喜欢女生回避他的样子，所以反映他不喜欢女生接近他。心理学家教他换个角度，画一些和女生一起的图案，想像他和女生一起，有女朋友。过了半年，因为他照着心理学家的话，改变了想法，actions based on mind, 就慢慢吸引了很多女生，也有个很好的女朋友，最后还结婚了。

在这故事里面，告诉我们，不要只是在那边想你的缘份，要去想像你要的缘份，去actions based on your mind，那缘份就会被你而吸引过来。。

不信吗？信不信，在于你。。。

Since there is a chance for you to try out, why not?!

p/s: 其实，law of attraction 可以用在其他的事情上，不只是在缘份，爱情上。

希望我那些还没有找到伴的朋友，是时候，想想怎样寻找的你缘份咯！

A very touching Mother's Day

Happy Belated Mother's Day to everyone!


My brother called me so suddenly yesterday, and asked "Do you want to go back with me later?" That time already 3.30pm, I get a shock, but feel happy too, because I really wish to go back home to celebrate Mother's day with my mom. So, for sure, I answered YES to my brother, and finally we get to reach home before 8pm, and brought my mom go for dinner.


Although we do not give my mother a wonderful dinner and any present, but I can feel my mom is very happy. My mom like to chit chat with us, so when she see us, she keep talking talking to us. When I saw her talking there, I really cry in my heart, as I know, she so wish her sons and daughter can go back visit her more often, can talk to her more often.. But, we cannot make it, as we working at KL/PJ and having many work loads there.


What we can do for her? What we can give to her? Do you think what you can do now?
I really wish I can give her all I can, I just wish to accompany her more, talk to her more often.


Wish you all love your parent more, always remember that your parent is always protect you since young, and always love you till the end. So, everything you do now, pls and pls think of your parent, don't just think of yourself.


~ Mom, I love U! ~ Lai Mun

First time drive car to office

Today is Sunday, I gonna go office work as usual from 9.30am - 6.30pm. So sad and pity.. T_T

Since gonna go office, so I decided to drive car to office myself. First time I so brave, and so brave drive car to office, and drive back home from office. Haha. 

Finally, I "xia ding jue xin" drive my car to office. 

Actually many people keep asking me to drive car out, but I keep saying No to them. Ya, I think too much previously, it is because the car is my dear dear 1, and I know I'm a careless, "lun zun" people, so I don't hope I crash my dear car, and I don't hope I simply drive out his car without any practice.

Seriously, at PJ/KL, those people drive car very scary, this is what I feel scare to it. For the meanwhile, I just wish to drive car to office and drive back. Hehe. 

Gambateh LaiMun!!

即将结婚的黑白配

刚刚看完20110317的康熙来了，这集主题是黑白配的结婚宣言！超感人的一集。。。黑人陈建州（黑）和范范范玮琪（白）配在一起10年了，今年是他们的第十一年，即将在五月结婚了。好羡慕他们喔！十年吔，好长的日子喔！

在节目里头，他们讲到他们是怎样认识的，怎样开始恋爱，怎样维持那感情，怎样在一起10年。。。那些故事都很感人！她在第七年的时候，有想过要放弃，想过要分手，也有想过为什么他没有向她求婚。。。他一直觉得一切都不稳定，所以迟迟都不求婚。。。什么刺激到黑人下了这决心呢？原来在他向她求婚的2天前，他们一起经历了生死的关头，让他觉得说他们应该要结婚，所以他就在2天后，在NBA的球场上，向她求婚了。。。

他们真的是很登对！好期待他们的婚礼喔！=）

梦想

梦想，对你们来说，是一件真的不可能发生的事吗？还是你也在为你的梦想而努力？或还是你更本没有想过你的梦想？或者你已经忘记了你的梦想？大家不妨想想吧！

我呢，是个很有梦的人，简单来说，我是个很喜欢发梦，造梦的人，很喜欢想象未来的我是怎样，也喜欢想想未来我希望怎样？有些人喜欢叫我不要发那么多梦了！但是，我觉得这样很好啊，有梦，人生才会变得有趣，不是吗？

我有很多梦想，也不停地在变换。但，最近我决定设下我的梦想了！我的梦想，其实很简单，就是时间自由，让我可以随时去旅行，可以带我妈妈去旅行，和我爱的人去旅行。会设下这个梦想是有原因的。我妈妈是个很喜欢这边去，那边走的人，她，这一年都一直跟我说要去哪里哪里？！其实我是知道她很想去旅行，但，目前的我，更本不能有能力可以给她很好的旅行，不能随时答应要带她去玩。虽然说“Now everyone can fly”但是我不想我妈妈坐着狭窄的位子，度过5-10个小时去到那个地方，而且她的脚也不允许她这样。

另外一个原因为什么我想要时间自由，是因为我可以有更多的时间陪我爱的人（伴侣和家人）。我呀，其实是个简单的女生，很爱家的女生。记得我朋友说我就像小鸟依人，我我应该是吧！所以我希望可以烹饪，煮一些我爱的人喜欢的食物，可以和爱的人一起享用美好的一餐，其实是很开心的。

我会为我的梦想不断地努力，我相信我可以在2年里面做到！我已经在努力了，那你呢？希望看到这的你可以想想你的梦想！想象你的未来！相信你的生活会更美好，更开心的！

向往这种生活的 ～ 丽雯～

苦中作乐

在这很忙碌的时候，偷偷地拿了些时间，在这里留话，轻松一下。。。

不知不觉的，三个月就快要过去了。。。大概应该很多人都懂我再说什么吧！ =）
对了，就是我的健康瘦身program，还有几天就功成身退了！ 哈哈！
超开心的。。


想呀想，越想就越开心，一想到以后不需要减肥了，你说是不是很开心啊？！
更开心的是，我可以帮身边的朋友，这是更加的开心。助人为快乐之本嘛。。。

好了，是时候，再继续看看我的工作，然后就要睡觉.


迎接美好的明天 -- 丽雯 --